“As a child I learned how a name can shape who you are as a person; this led me to research my last name ‘Whetstone’. Many know a whetstone is a stone used for sharpening tools and knives. Less known is the fact that ‘Whetstone’ is derived from the antiquated word ‘whet’ meaning to sharpen and encourage.”
“For as long as I can remember, I’ve always wanted to encourage and bring out the best in people because I believe there is potential for good and greatness in EVERYONE.”
An Encourager ~ B. Whetstone, MS, LCSW

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“Just remember, you are not alone, in fact, you are in a very commonplace with millions of others. We need to help each other and keep striving to reach our goals.” — Mike Moreno
Using definitions from the American Psychological Association (APA) we have listed common issues that many individuals struggle to manage and a few methods used to treat those issues. If any of the symptoms listed below feel familiar or affect your everyday life, contact us now, we can help you discover peace and understanding using compassionate and culturally sensitive care.

Professional counseling for anxiety, trauma, depression, and more.
Perseverance – We will set goals, and continue to pursue those goals even through obstacles and adversity. With the right support and effort, almost anything is possible.
Autonomy – Everyone should have the ability to maintain and express their unique cultural identity and practices without fear of judgement or prejudice, while also respecting the autonomy of others.
Compassion – Individuals deserve a confidential, supportive and diverse environment. At Whetstone we understand and empathizing with your experiences and challenges without judgment or assumption.
Together – We will not dictate your life. A client and therapist utilizing a team approach is essential when healing. Teamwork offers a gateway to open communication, access to diverse skill sets, and more efficient problem-solving.


What is Anxiety?
Anxiety is an emotion characterized by feelings of tension, worried thoughts, and physical changes like increased blood pressure.
Symptoms of Anxiety
It is important to understand that our minds and bodies experience Anxiety differently; keep that in mind while reviewing the partial list of symptoms listed below:
· Excessive
What is Anxiety?
Anxiety is an emotion characterized by feelings of tension, worried thoughts, and physical changes like increased blood pressure.
Symptoms of Anxiety
It is important to understand that our minds and bodies experience Anxiety differently; keep that in mind while reviewing the partial list of symptoms listed below:
· Excessive Worrying
· A Sense of Doom
· Restlessness
· Muscle Aches or Other Pains
· Impaired Concentration
· Irritability
· Trouble Sleeping
· Fatigue
· Loss of Libido
· Panic Attacks

How is Trauma Defined?
Trauma is an emotional response to a terrible event like an accident, crime, natural disaster, physical or emotional abuse, neglect, experiencing or witnessing violence, death of a loved one, war, and more.
Symptoms of Trauma
Symptoms of Trauma will present differently for each individual based on several factors such
How is Trauma Defined?
Trauma is an emotional response to a terrible event like an accident, crime, natural disaster, physical or emotional abuse, neglect, experiencing or witnessing violence, death of a loved one, war, and more.
Symptoms of Trauma
Symptoms of Trauma will present differently for each individual based on several factors such as age, type of trauma, etc., some common reactions to Trauma are listed as follows:
· Unpredictable emotions
· Flashbacks
· Nightmares
· Avoidance
· Forgetting aspects of the trauma
· Strained relationships
· Difficulty concentrating
· Numbness

What is Depression?
Everyone experiences sadness at times but depression is something more. Depression is extreme sadness or despair that lasts a significant amount of time and interferes with daily life activities.
Symptoms of Depression
Depression is the most common mental disorder but everyone experiences depression in their own way. Som
What is Depression?
Everyone experiences sadness at times but depression is something more. Depression is extreme sadness or despair that lasts a significant amount of time and interferes with daily life activities.
Symptoms of Depression
Depression is the most common mental disorder but everyone experiences depression in their own way. Some potential symptoms are listed below:
· Unyielding Sadness
· Substance Abuse
· Isolation
· Hopelessness
· Excessive Guilt
· Anger
· Thoughts of death or suicide
· Weight loss or gain
· Sleeping pattern disruptions
· Lack of Energy

Life adjustments are periods of transformation that mark the beginning of something new or the ending of something familiar. Life adjustments can bring a mix of emotions and challenges which impact your mental well-being. These changes require unique coping strategies and a qualified therapist to help navigate and support your journey.
Com
Life adjustments are periods of transformation that mark the beginning of something new or the ending of something familiar. Life adjustments can bring a mix of emotions and challenges which impact your mental well-being. These changes require unique coping strategies and a qualified therapist to help navigate and support your journey.
Common Life Adjustments:
· Relocating
· Career Changes
· Marriage
· Divorce
· Grief
· Empty Nest
· Living Independently
· Becoming a Parent
· Health Struggles
· Graduating from School
· Unanticipated Transitions

Therapy is a core element in the overall health care plan for those living with HIV and AIDS. I feel a strong connection to those dealing with health challenges, especially HIV. The difficulties in a world that often misunderstands these experiences requires resilience and strength to combat societal misconceptions in order to build a lif
Therapy is a core element in the overall health care plan for those living with HIV and AIDS. I feel a strong connection to those dealing with health challenges, especially HIV. The difficulties in a world that often misunderstands these experiences requires resilience and strength to combat societal misconceptions in order to build a life with love, acceptance, and meaningful connections.
Support for Those Living with HIV/AIDS
Good mental health, your emotional, psychological, and social well-being, will allow you live your life to the fullest. If you are struggling, allow us to help you.
· Affirming Therapy
· Self-Acceptance
· Coming Out
· Navigating Relationships
· Gender Care
· New HIV Diagnosis
· Addiction Counseling
· Compulsive Behaviors
· Existing Mental Health Conditions
· Support Disclosing your HIV status

LGBTQ+
I have worked extensively with LGBTQ+ clients providing immediate help and affirming therapeutic care. I share a deep understanding of the challenges and triumphs unique to the LGBTQ+ community. LGBTQ+ therapy offers a safe and supportive space to help address how homophobia or transphobia might affect your life.
Unexplained Sadness
LGBTQ+
I have worked extensively with LGBTQ+ clients providing immediate help and affirming therapeutic care. I share a deep understanding of the challenges and triumphs unique to the LGBTQ+ community. LGBTQ+ therapy offers a safe and supportive space to help address how homophobia or transphobia might affect your life.
Unexplained Sadness/Other Moods
Not sure where you fit? Struggling in life and don’t know what to do? It is normal to feel insecure and not have a full understanding of your purpose and self-image. However, not fitting in does not necessarily mean there is something wrong with you, there are ways to manage your feelings and build meaningful connections.

There are several therapeutic approaches a
trained licensed therapist may use when treating
their clients. Some approaches work best for
specific conditions while others can help with a
range of issues. Many professionals are adept at
using a combination of therapy techniques.
A few of these methods are listed below:
There are several therapeutic approaches a
trained licensed therapist may use when treating
their clients. Some approaches work best for
specific conditions while others can help with a
range of issues. Many professionals are adept at
using a combination of therapy techniques.
A few of these methods are listed below:

Building a strong and trustworthy relationship with my clients is the first step to a successful therapy journey. Therefore, only see a limited number of people each week. Unless scheduled otherwise, sessions will last 50-55 minutes and each session is individually tailored to help you take meaningful steps toward healing and personal g
Building a strong and trustworthy relationship with my clients is the first step to a successful therapy journey. Therefore, only see a limited number of people each week. Unless scheduled otherwise, sessions will last 50-55 minutes and each session is individually tailored to help you take meaningful steps toward healing and personal growth.
The first session is about understanding your unique story and setting the foundation for our work together in a way that feels supportive and collaborative. I will take time to learn about your experiences, challenges, and goals while creating a safe, nonjudgmental space. As a team, we will explore your mental health, gain new perspectives on challenges, and uncover your strengths.
My job is to provide thoughtful reflections and an initial assessment.

For medical emergencies, injuries, suicidal fixation, or other at-risk behavior call 911 or proceed to your nearest hospital emergency room.
Crisis Text Line - Text HOME to 741741
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
LGBT National Hotline - 1-888-843-4564
Substance Abuse - SAMHSA National Helpline
1-800-662-HELP (4
For medical emergencies, injuries, suicidal fixation, or other at-risk behavior call 911 or proceed to your nearest hospital emergency room.
Crisis Text Line - Text HOME to 741741
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
LGBT National Hotline - 1-888-843-4564
Substance Abuse - SAMHSA National Helpline
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Suicide & Crisis Lifeline - 988
Trans Lifeline - 1-877-565-8860
Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ+ Young People
The Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386
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